How to get your child into reading, without forcing it

What follows is not a method, just the things that many families find help, from the toddler years to the end of primary school.

Read aloud, for as long as they will let you

Reading aloud is the single thing most likely to make a child love books, and it does not stop being useful once they can read. A fluent eight-year-old still hears a story differently from how they read it, and still loves the closeness. Keep going until they ask you to stop, and then offer a chapter of something harder than they could manage alone.

Do the voices if you enjoy it. Stop and talk about the pictures. Let them interrupt. None of this is a test.

Let them choose, even when you would not

Children read what interests them. That might be a joke book, a football annual, a comic, a book about sharks for the fourth time, or the same series until the covers fall off. All of it counts.

• A library card of their own, and regular trips where they choose.
• Books left lying around: in the car, the bathroom, the kitchen.
• Comics, graphic novels and manga, which carry a reluctant reader along with pictures.
• Non-fiction for the children who ask “why?”: space, the body, how things work.

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Make them the hero of the story

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Make reading easy and visible

• A reading spot that is theirs: a cushion, a lamp, a basket of books.
• A regular moment, ten minutes after lunch or before bed, that is simply part of the day.
• Reading yourself, where they can see you. Children copy what they see more than what they are told.
• Audiobooks in the car and at bedtime. Listening to stories builds the same love of narrative, and often leads to the book.
• No reward charts for reading, if you can avoid them. Many children start to read for the sticker rather than the story.

When your child says they hate reading

Take it seriously, and look for the reason. Sometimes the books are too hard, and an easier series restores confidence. Sometimes they are too easy, and a child who is bored needs something with more plot. Sometimes reading has become homework, and needs a break. And sometimes, especially around ten or eleven, it is just a phase that passes if you keep the books nearby and the pressure off.

If reading itself is a real struggle, your child’s teacher is the right person to talk to. At home, the kindest thing is often to go back to reading aloud and let the pleasure come first.

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